I had been studying about cooking on board and stoves. I had decieded on the Seacock single burner stove that only allows an 8 inch pot. I also wanted to go without handles. What I have been using for the last 7 months is the MSR Alpine Classic Cookset -
MSR Alpine Classic Cookset Cooking in the handless SS pots 2 or 3 times a day. They have held up very well and do store equally well. I did get the extra handles which, when I bought them, was stronger than the orginal. I do need 2 when I drain the liquid from pasta and such.
Non-stick pan - MSR DuraLite Fry Pan
http://www.rei.com/product/695242I have been using this for 7 months every day and the non-stick finish is finally wearing so that some things are sticking. It lasted much longer than I thought.
on edit, the Seacock stove lasted about 14 months fulltime use and then the burnners had rusted out.