Quick story that was my introduction to the mind of a sailboat racer. At the time, we did not have a boat and my wife had never set foot on a small sailboat before. We went to the Leukemia Society's Sail America event on a nearby lake to help the charity out as well as to get her on a boat to see if she would like it enough for us to make "the investment."
For those unfamiliar with the Sail America events, you basically show up and get on a boat. Each skipper takes x number of people out for an hour and a half or so sail around the lake, where x depends on the boat and skipper.
I don't recall what kind of boat we were on, but it was something like a 28 or 30 footer. Our skipper was THE racing skipper. For eveny other boat we saw, he commented on how many minutes per mile he had to give them (obviously, his boat was the fastest around, so no one had to give him any minutes). He never said anything good about any other boat (nice lines, good pointing, etc) and never said anything at all, pro or con, about any of the other skippers (presumably his friends in the club).
He explained the virtues of two speed winches on board, and let me crank in the genny for a close hauled leg. As soon as I started turning the stinking winch handle, he started screaming at me to "not trim too much, you will ruin the sail." In other words, he said trim the genny, then when I did, he made a big deal about spoiling the sail.
He refused to let us wave at power boaters, and claimed sailboaters don't wave at power boaters. I thought this was stupid at the time, and still do (one of those power boaters might be providing assistance should one need it). I wave at friendly people, whether they are sailing, motoring or rowing.
As we passed another boat, he yelled derisive comments to the skipper about boat speed.
So, in summary, my wife left that experience, her first on a sail boat, thinking sailors were jerks. I had to convince her not all were like that. All in all, he did not present a good first impression to sailing for first-timers (who came out interested in sailing and wililng to spend an afternoon supporting a worthy charity); nor, in my opinion, did he represent either the Leukemia Society or his yacht club very well.
I have to admit, I've known other racing types with similar attitudes. I'm not saying racing has to be like that, but if there is ONE like that in the crowd, I probably would not enjoy it. I'd be thinking the whole time about the smoking hole my 25 mm flare would make in his forehead.
But that's just me.
